Been compared to others all your life? Forced to exert yourself to over-perform? You gave it your all and burnt out? And now you can’t help doubting each step you take, every decision you make?

Well, I am no stranger to self-doubt. At one point in my life, I had it all – I was basically a Prince, no end to the money, no end to what I could do and I took advantage of it all.

But when circumstances changed, I lost it all and I think I lost my confidence with it. As I adapted to my new way of life, I retreated into myself, focused on my daily mundane tasks, no sign of any purpose, but I gave it my all and kept going.

One of those random days, I was caught up in my work when my boss came up to me and assigned me a most important task – a task that would require me to step up and be a leader to many. I immediately panicked and said no. I started coming up with excuses, stating why I’m not good enough for the job! I even suggested they pick someone else for the job! Imagine - who does that?! I’m surprised I didn’t get fired for my self-professed incompetence.

Instead, my gracious boss offered me words of encouragement, and when I still wasn’t convinced, he sent someone to support me in my task. Getting such support and encouragement helped rebuild my confidence and empowered me to take up future tasks on my own, utilising my own skills and talents, and understanding my purpose.

Knowing that I wasn’t alone was the first step for me to regain my confidence. You are not alone either.
Just as I had someone to guide me, and someone to lean on, find people you can trust, and don’t be afraid to ask for help when needed. Build your community.

If you find yourself feeling like there’s no one in your corner, remember that you are not alone in this journey; we are here to support you, share in your experiences, and grow together.

You are enough. You are capable.

Embrace your worth.